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Introduction

This Relationship Review will stimulate you in creating more fulfilling relationships. Call Ed Shea and allow him to walk with you through this Review. That way you can experience Ed's gentle guidance and depth of wisdom while touching on sensitive issues.

Ed's desire for you is to remove all danger from the relationship and end all criticism, therefore, it is important that you not use this review as a way to find fault with or criticize your partner. Please allow Ed to help you look at your own role in areas where you are dissatisfied.

Instructions:

Call Ed Shea at 1-630-530-1060 Ed will walk you through the Relationship Review and share the whole experience with you.

Complete the test below by supplying a numerical response as follows:

Statement is not true or rarely true.

Statement is seldom to sometimes true.

Statement is true about half the time.

Statement is more often true than not.

Statement is usually or always true.

Recreation and Renewal

My partner is a fun, relaxing playmate for me.

I relax in the presence of my partner.

I enjoy doing things with my partner.

We spend "enough" time "playing" together.

My partner & I enjoy some of the same activities/hobbies & engage in them together.

I easily & regularly take time for my own refreshing & renewing.

My partner easily & regularly takes time for his/her own refreshing & renewing.

We exercise together on a regular basis.

I engage in a regular fitness program.

My partner engages in a regular fitness program.

We plan & take regular vacations together & occasionally apart.

Relationships with In-laws and Family

I enjoy being with my partner's family.

I feel my partner's family enjoys being with me.

I enjoy being with my own family.

My own family seems to enjoy being with me.

As a couple, we spend the "right" amount of time with family.

My family respects the boundaries of our relationship.

My partner's family respects the boundaries of our relationship.

I feel comfortable being myself with my family.

My partner is her/himself with my family.

Our families positively contribute to our life together.

Relationships with Friends

I have my own friends & take time to be with them on a regular basis.

My partner has his/her own friends & takes time to be with them regularly.

My partner & I have mutual friends which we take time to be with regularly.

I feel supported by my friends.

If I needed support in a stressful time, I could & would ask my friends for help.

I am satisfied with my number of friends & level of intimacy I share with them.

My partner has just the "right" number of friends.

My partner's & my friends support & expand our relationship in positive ways.

Communication Patterns

I can speak to my partner about anything & feel comfortable about doing so.

We always have things to share & talk about.

I feel comfortable telling my partner about things that he/she is doing, saying or failing to do that I am not happy about.

I am aware of how I communicate & how my partner differs from me in his/her communication style; I am comfortable with these differences.

When we argue, there is no name-calling, hitting, threatening, walking out in the middle of the fight, grudge-holding or the "silent treatment".

I am able to listen when my partner tells me things that he/she is not happy with.

I communicate my thoughts & feelings with "I" statements, not "You" statements.

My partner communicates his/her thoughts & feelings with "I", not "You" statements.

I am willing to talk & listen until an issue is resolved.

My partner is willing to talk & listen until an issue is resolved.

I feel deep respect for my partner as an independent person & I treat them this way.

I feel respected by my partner.

Money in Your Relationship

I feel comfortable talking to my partner about money concerns.

We make financial decisions in a manner that is comfortable to me.

I feel comfortable with the amount of money we spend & how we spend it.

I feel comfortable with the amount of money my partner spends & how they spend it.

I feel satisfied with the amount of money we save & how we invest/save it.

I feel satisfied with how the bills are paid.

I feel satisfied with how I am making money.

I feel satisfied with how my partner is making money.

I know I contribute significantly to the partnership, as separate & apart from my level of monetary contribution.

I feel adequately informed about financial matters & management or I feel comfortable with the person who manages the financial planning.

When we disagree about money, it is clearly about money & not other concerns.

Religion and Spirituality

My partner & I share a satisfying spiritual relationship.

I am satisfied & enjoy how we celebrate the holidays.

We are in agreement about our religious values &/or are comfortable about being different from one another.

My spiritual life grows in ways that positively contribute to our partnership.

My partner's spiritual life grows in ways that contribute to our partnership.

My spiritual/religious faith is very important to me.

His/her spiritual/religious faith is very important to my partner.

Your Sexual Relationship

Our sexual relationship is just the way I would want it.

We have sex as often as I would like.

My partner is loving & sensitive to my needs & desires.

My partner is appreciative of my physical appearance & tells me so.

I feel physically/sexually attracted to my partner.

I know that my partner is physically/sexually attracted to me.

We can comfortably communicate about our sexual desires, fantasies & needs.

If I am not interested in sex at a particular time, my partner understands.

Work as Related to Your Partnership

My work life is satisfying.

My work life is in balance with the rest of my life.

My work life adds to the partnership in positive ways.

My partner's work life adds to the partnership in positive ways.

I am happy with my career as it is currently.

I feel supported by my partner.

I support my partner & his/her work life.

Managing our mutual careers, although difficult at times, is basically rewarding.

Parenting and Children

I enjoy the tasks & process of being a parent.

I enjoy co-parenting with my partner.

I am comfortable discussing & resolving parenting differences with my partner.

My partner is able to discuss parenting differences & come to solutions with me.

I am comfortable with how we are raising our children in regard to religion.

My partner & I agree on the religious approach we are taking with the children.

When confronted with a difficult situation with one of our children, we are able to work together to solve the difficulty.

I enjoy playing with the children & do it often.

My partner enjoys playing with the children and does it often.

I take my role as parent seriously & realize I am a role model for the children.

My partner takes his/her role seriously & behaves appropriately with the children.

We make an ongoing effort to educate our children & to expose them to a variety of life situations so as to adequately prepare them for adulthood.

If I had it to do over again, I would definitely have children.

Romance and Appreciation

I feel appreciated by my partner.

My partner expresses clearly & directly everyday his/her appreciation of me.

I appreciate & value my partner.

I tell my partner clearly & directly everyday that I value & appreciate them.

I am confident that my partner knows that I love him/her.

I compliment my partner in his/her favorite way at least once a day.

My partner compliments me in my favorite way at least once a day.

I make efforts to make romantic gestures toward my partner on a regular basis.

I feel "romanced" by my partner on a regular basis.

I feel proud & glad to be with my partner.

My partner knows that I feel proud & glad to be with her/him.

At least 3 times a year, I surprise my partner with some gesture/object/activity which conveys my love of him/her.

At least 3 times a year, I am surprised by my partner with some gesture/object/activity which conveys his/her love of me.

Personal Development

I am dedicated to being all I can be, everyday in every aspect, as best I can.

My partner is similarly dedicated to being all he/she can be, as best he/she can.

I make a point of learning something new everyday.

My partner makes a point of learning something new everyday.

I have a clear future image of myself as I would like to be in 1 year & in 5 years and I have shared this with my partner.

My partner has shared with me a clear future image of his/herself as he/she would like to be in 1 year & in 5 years.

When I become aware of an aspect of myself which I do not like or value, I make every effort to talk it over with my partner and to learn from the discovery for the benefit of myself & the partnership.

When my partner becomes aware of an aspect of his/herself which he/she does not like or value, he/she makes every effort to talk it over with me and to learn from the discovery for the benefit of his/herself & the partnership.

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